Titi (Cyrilla racemiflora)
The titi is a beautiful small tree that fits perfectly into a naturalistic setting. Its native range extends from Virginia to Florida (USDA hardiness zones 6 to 11). It is known for its lustrous green leaves that turn a beautiful shade of orange/scarlet in the fall. Titi grows to be about 10 to 15 feet high and wide, but can reach 25 to 35 feet over time in good growing conditions.The flowers of titi are white and fragrant with a light airy texture.These flowers grow into fruits that persist into the winter. The titi prefers full sun to partial shade and moist, well-drained soil.
Jeffery Spencer Wesley Bise
You slipped through our fingers but not through our hearts.
Not a day goes by that I don’t miss my funny, sweet, smart, sensitive son. I know I will see him again, and that God holds him close. Until then, I pray we will run with endurance this course set before us, with the hope of heaven ever on our minds, and the love of Christ ever in our hearts. It is this hope that makes us strong, knowing that Jeffery Spencer awaits us free from pain and suffering. I think daily about his jokes, his sense of justice and compassion, and his willingness to do anything for someone who suffered.I love you son.– Heather B.
Jeffery Spencer Gingy Bise, I miss you everyday. I miss your sense of humor, your quick wit, your smile and everything that made you, you. Most of all I miss hugging you and the joy that you brought into not only my life but also everyone around you. I will see you again and I can hardly wait for that next hug.Love Dad– Jeff B.
When we first met, you scared the heck out of me. Who could be as free spirited as you? You were like a cartoon character but somehow even more energetic. You knew when to be stern with people. You knew when to be gentle. I’ve never met a man so young yet so capable of arriving at such great wisdom. I miss you. I’ll be sure to tell my future kids about our wild, irresponsible adventures.Rest easy, brother.I love you. – Micah F.
Spencer had a soul so gentle that wild birds would land on his shoulders. – Melissa M.
He was always my ray of sunshine on the cloudiest of days. – Leigh Ann H.
Master of impressions, king of silly, odd noisemaker extraordinaire, also thoughtful, kindhearted and introspective. Spencer you are missed. – Beth W.
Spencer had a heart of gold that could make anyone smile. – Michelle C.
Not a day goes by that I’m not reminded of the joy Spencer has and will continue to bring to my life. He will forever be in my heart. – Haille F.
I may have not known you well…but you inspire me now…bless the kinder spirit. God bless my family. – Tina D.
Shpiencer, I’ll always cherish the hilarious, wonderful, fun, some heart breaking, and unforgettable memories I had with you while you were here. You really changed my life. The day I met you I wanted to know you. You became one of my best friends so quickly and you were always there for me. I never thanked you enough for everything you helped me through. I will miss our late night calls and walks in the woods; I’d give anything for just one more. You had a magical and silly way about you – being with you or talking to you was like escaping from reality. I wish I could share with the world the joy you shared with me just by being you. You are forever irreplaceable. Maybe one day I’ll get that bonfire with you. I’ll always love you buddy. I miss you everyday Spencer, I promise never to lose the moon while counting the stars. Thank you for being my friend. – Molly G.
Spencer will forever be Spencer-pot-pie. His heart was full of love for his family and friends. He could always, always make us laugh. Love you Spencer. – Dawn T.
Spencer always knew how to make someone smile or laugh, I always want to remember those times. – Heather W.
Spencer was my young little red haired cousin…met him once, spent the day with him on a boat, with family, sun was shining, a beautiful day in July, 2008 in Charlotte, NC. – Lori G.
I got to know Spencer a number of years ago when he was a young kid in church youth group. Always silly, goofy, and clever, Spencer also had incredible sensitivity and thoughtfulness for others. I don’t remember everyone from those days, but he is one I will never forget. – Joel W.
I’ll be waiting on the day you flip me over another couch, slingshot me across another ice rink, mix me another stack of pancakes, and love me unconditionally again. Miss you always. – Sydney H.
Spencer was always beautifully creative and artistic, and always knew how to make everyone around him smile. We miss you, Spencer. – Jen G.
I have been constantly looking at this page trying to find the perfect words to describe how much Spencer meant to me and to the world. How gracious, adventurous and beautiful he was. He brightened my life, never judged me for being ridiculously silly (he mostly just encouraged it). I will forever miss and love you, Spencer. – Cydney I.
Spencer was such an amazing brother and friend, that he was always up for being in my silly YouTube videos with me. We had insane amounts of fun, and I will forever cherish his immortalized moments that we have captured together. – Nicholas D.
Crazy, funny, and always smiling. He always knew exactly how to put a smile on someone’s face when they needed some cheering up. – Brandon H.
He was always there for people when they needed him, he knew how to get them to smile and forget for a moment. Even if calling me “Fez” made me mad, it was still funny. – Auburn B.
Spencer is simply unable to be captured in a single sentence, but if I tried it would say that he had the biggest heart, the best sense of quirky humor, and will never be forgotten. – Crystal S.
Spencer you will always be very special to all of us as I sit here today and look at your beloved Merg. I am reminded of your fun loving behavior. – Jo S.
Spencer was the one who knew how to make every bad thing about your life melt away, even if only for a moment. – Michaela B.
You meant so much to my brother and my family. Your sweet, silly, free spirit, I always thought you were unlike anyone else, and that’s what I loved about you. You brought so much joy & laughter into our lives. I misinterpreted you leaving us as something dark and depressing, but it is your light that lives on in our hearts every day if we allow it. In the littlest ways, you taught us all how to live, and I have peace now knowing you live on in our hearts and memories, and with our father in heaven. We will see you soon Spencer. – Jordana B.
The fire in his hair lit a fire in our hearts. – Haley E.
Spencer was someone you meet only meet once in your lifetime. The kindness, the gentleness, and the wisdom beyond his years is not someone you come across everyday. You only find one person in your life like that, and I’m so grateful that it was him. I am grateful for the advice he gave me when I needed it, the smiles he brought to my face, and the love and compassion he shared whenever he was around. I love you Spencer, and I miss you everyday. Everything makes me think of you and I hope that never changes because that means I smile more throughout the day. You never failed to make me smile, and you never will. – Elisabeth F.
Spencer was a kind, sweet spirit. He was a gentle soul and his light remains in all of us. – Susan M.
You live on in the hearts and minds of everyone who ever met you. You will not be forgotten in the slightest even though you may not be here physically with us, your spirit still lives through those who are thinking of you and posting their memories. I hope one day we will see that fiery red hair and your smile light up a room again. Until then you won’t ever be forgotten. – Aly B.
Spence, you big goofball. You had a way of lighting a room just by being in it. No words needed. Just you. You are missed and still very much loved. <3 – Cyndee B.
I miss you more and more each day, Spencer. I see you in everything, anytime I see a black beanie, I see you in the forests I drive by on my way home, in the Valentines note you snuck into my pocket, and my favorite place, the memories I share with you and your beautiful soul. I love you, Spency. Goodnight. Always, Milly. – Milana F.
Spencer, we only met a few times but every time we met it was very special. Every joyful moment I spent with you will always be in my heart. – Shar A.
The late night conversations will be remembered and you will be dearly missed even though we lived far apart. – Maddicyn T.
A wonderful young man whose life was too short. He’ll be missed by many, remembered with love and his beautiful red hair brings a smile! <3 – Mary G.
Your impact will always be felt by all those who met you. Thank you for being witty, vivacious, thoughtful, and loving. I miss you but am comforted that we will spend eternity together. – Kim H.
Every moment matters. Every act of loving kindness counts. Thank you for sharing your moments and your gifts. – Lori K.
Spencer, my memories of you are as a little red headed boy who looked up to his big brother. Such a cute little boy! Although I didn’t know you as an adult I do know that you had an impact on people and you never even knew it. Your time here was cut short but you live on in the hearts of those who love you and we will remember YOU! If Alaina, Tara and Avery didn’t meet you as you entered the gates of heaven, be sure to look them up. They’ll be great companions! In case you didn’t know it- you are loved, you are treasured and you are greatly missed. <3 <3 <3 – Randy & Julie H.
I wish we could say that we really knew Spencer, but we didn’t see him often to really get to know him. Our hearts hurt for his family though. – Midge K.
Jeffery, I really miss you. I miss the way you always knew how to make people smile, and I miss the way you inspired me. You were a brother to me, and you were always there. I will always hold on tightly to the memories I shared with you. – Amanda H
To see pictures and other posts made about Spencer please visit the facebook page: The Memorial of Jeffery Spencer Bise.
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